NaBloPoMo ends…woo!

There’s been a discussion over on Darcsfalcon’s blog which started about leaving behind toxic family members, and then morphed into personal boundaries and expectations. Last night I was all gung-ho about continuing the discussion here on my blog, but the moment has passed. I’m not feeling particularly analytical or reflective today, but if you’re interested in these topics, go on over to Fal’s place and add your two cents.

So today is the last day of NaBloPoMo in the month of July. It was an interesting exercise, and I’m absolutely amazed that I managed to come up with something to talk about every day. Here are some interesting tidbits I’ve come away with.

  • It’s funny how the little throw-away posts can garner the most discussion. I guess when I touch on a subject and throw it out there, it generates more thought than if I impose my ideas on my readers.
  • I simply don’t have any interest in creating long, article-style posts. That’s not what this blog is about, and it’s not what my readers expect. I feel like those blogs are more legitimate than mine, but I don’t know where I got that idea. The blog is not the only place I limit myself by arbitrary “shoulds”, so hopefully I can take that lesson and apply it to other areas.
  • Posting 31 days in a row did little for my daily hit count. The same posts get all the search engine traffic, I don’t think I picked up any new regulars, and my old regulars visited only slightly more often, as far as I can tell.

Those little tidbits add up to one thing: I can relax and have fun on my blog. Duh.

Thanks for hanging around for my experiment. Now I’m taking off the month of August!! Not really.

Money can’t buy happiness, but it can buy peace

Got to sleep in this morning, and it was nice. The kids are old enough to occupy themselves until I get up (though whether or not they choose to occupy themselves is another story) so if I need an extra hour I can usually get it. Usually I feel rushed the rest of the day, but today I feel like I’m floating on an ocean of good feeling, where worry and strife is waving from yonder shore. My dreams last night were normal; don’t know why I feel so peaceful. Maybe it’s because I’ve been delving into Buddhism more lately.

I guess I need to go to yet another town to find some scent-free items. Maybe I’ll try K-Mart first, but if that doesn’t pan out the next step is the big city, 40 miles away. It’s also school clothes time, that’s always fun. Well, that was sarcastic, but this time it might actually be fun, because DH got a little bonus at work. We might be able to buy things the kids like instead of whatever’s left on the $3 rack.

Maybe that’s what I’m feeling today. Monetary ease. I’m going to let the feeling sink in and carry it around with me forever.

My favorite fragrance-free products

I’ve been in a lot of public places lately, which means a lot of fragrance exposure. I’d relaxed my defensive efforts–nose filters, mask, short excursions–because it seemed fragrance’s hold was lifting. I have tight, burning eyes and sinus pressure regardless of whether I go out now, and my short trips to the store and the longer outing to my friend’s place…Well, it seemed like those things weren’t making the symptoms worse like it used to. I thought my body was recovering.

I still think it is, but I’m finding out that repeated exposure can still build up. I’ve left only a day between each exposure over the past week or two–library, casino, grocery store, school enrollment, pizza place–and it has sure been taking a toll. I need longer rest time in a neutral environment between each outing to allow my body to metabolize the toxin. It’s such a relief to get back to my home, the most neutral environment I’ve found.

I’ve avoided making a list of fragrance-free products I use, because of laziness, yes, but also because until now I hadn’t tried enough of them to settle on a list of favorites. These products work as well as the ones they replaced, and in some cases better.

Cleaners

  • Clorox Green Works Natural dishwashing liquid, Free & Clear. I love this stuff. I also put it diluted in pump bottles for hand washing.
  • Soapopular hand sanitizer is completely inoffensive
  • Simplicity Hypoallergenic Non-toxic automatic dishwasher sachets
  • Borax is an excellent grease cutter. Nothing better for getting grease off appliances.
  • Ammonia
  • Vinegar
  • Water. Seriously, do you need to use a chemical everytime you wipe the crumbs off the counter?

I have yet to find a suitable replacement for toilet bowl cleaner, so I just use ammonia or vinegar, whatever I’m in the mood for, but they don’t really get rid of the water stains. I’m still looking. Be wary of trash bags, because they often have fragrance added.

Body-care products

  • Earth Science Fragrance Free Shampoo and Conditioner
  • Aveeno Active Naturals Skin Relief Body Wash, Fragrance Free (I prefer the store brand version of this, because it doesn’t seem to have as much of an odor and it’s cheaper, but this will be more easily found.)
  • Dove Sensitive Skin bar soap. Make sure it says “Fragrance Free” on the package and not merely “unscented.”
  • Dove Sensitive Skin antiperspirant. Again, make sure it says “Fragrance Free” on the package. “Hypoallergenic” or “Unscented” doesn’t always encompass it.
  • Almay makeup contains no fragrance ever, as far as I can tell.
  • Lubriderm Daily Moisture for me, and Suave Natural Oatmeal Moisturizer for DH
  • Olay Complete All-day Moisture Lotion, Sensitive Skin.

Be wary of any feminine hygiene products, because they do not have to list any added fragrance. I once bought a package of Carefree panty liners and was surprised with fragrance, so I avoid all their products, just in case.

Along my journey through the house listing all my products, I found a couple of scented products that sneaked past me. One was the Dove “unscented” soap, the other was my husband’s hairspray, both of which don’t list fragrance in the ingredients. I assume they list the actual chemical name of the fragrance, but the research to find out which one would be a couple of hours. And it doesn’t matter, anyway, because they have to go. These could be the reason for my constant eye and sinus irritation, and also the reason for the decreased stamina outside of the house. I’ve put that soap on my face every single day for a couple of weeks.

Anyway, that’s my list. Here’s an interesting interview I tweeted yesterday about toxins in personal care products if you’re interested in such things.

Update: So guess what? I didn’t use the soap or a new antiperspirant, and I feel tons better. It’s like night and day. I’m so happy I could scream. :)

Another update: I re-checked the packaging on the Dove soap, and it does say “fragrance free” on there. Guess it was just a red-herring after all. That’s why this is such a stupid problem. It’s possible something besides fragrance in the soap is irritating my eyes. I really need to make some more soap.

Enrollment day

No writing dreams last night. The themes seemed to be travel, freedom, and fun. Nice.

Today’s enrollment day. It’s such a huge milestone that I blog about it every year. It’s interesting to look back over posts of years past to see where I was then. Every year I think I’m going to have more writing time.

My Busy Day
Okay, so I’m not much of a schmoozer

Watch out, I’m about to get prolific

Last year the noose did loosen a bit, since I had afternoons free. Too bad I was also going through the biggest writer’s block of my entire life, so I didn’t take full advantage of it. This year, as I said before, I’ll have the entire day free. I also have my own vehicle now, which will help immensely when I need to freshen my mind.

I think I should get done enrolling fairly easily, since we have no new students this year. The noose loosens further.